If there is one everlasting rule at work, it is that dating a co-worker is a no-no. Having a crush at work just doesn’t cut it.
Having a crush on a co-worker sometimes is inevitable. The more so because you spend more time around this person than you do with your partner or family. You see them every day, exchange information about each other, crack jokes and the likes.
Therefore, it isn’t anything to be ashamed of. At some point in each person’s life and career, We are sure there have been secret crushes and admiration.
Most times, people fall for coworkers because it is perhaps the only fun thing at work. We mean, you spend hours crunched at a desk working and the only probable means of fun comes through that one $eexy colleague. So this crush adds a little bit of drama to an otherwise boring life or work place.
It is exciting to parties involved to indulge in a little office Romance but more often than not, office crushes bring unwanted side effects like being gossiped about, inability to concentrate at work, and a sour working atmosphere if it doesn’t end well.
Therefore, you have got to get over that crush, do not be swayed into indulging in an office romance no matter how shorty lived it is. This is for you if you get to get over your office crush.
1. Stop talking about it with other colleagues.
Gossip, you know, can spread like wild fire. So if you have a habit of discussing how you feel about that coworker with another colleague, you can be sure that they would repeat it to the others.
Work can get boring sometimes and what better topic to liven the mood than that of your secret crush? Do not be moved to confide how you feel to any other person. After all, you do not want the news getting back to your boss, do you?