Of course, perfection is really scarce, and this suggests that there will be something about your boo or bae that you’d love them to change or improve.
If, however, the list of what you want your partner to change is really lengthy, this means there is a huge possibility of arguments, complaints and discontent in the relationship. You might need to ask yourself if you should still be dating them, really.
1. Unfavorable comparisons to your ex
When you find yourself constantly comparing your lover with your ex, even though you have been together for a number of months or more, then you could be dating the wrong person. While many people will say that comparison with your ex is quite inevitable, the real problem arises when your present partner falls short of the standard set by your former partner.
I mean, there’s a reason you broke up with your ex, and if your present partner is actually lower in standard than someone you had to let go of, what does that say about him/her? In fact, this could even be a huge sign that you’re not over your ex.